Everything that you were doing before you were pregnant is probably still okay. Do use some caution if your sexual activity is more aggressive. But, just because sex is safe during pregnancy doesn't always mean you'll want to have it! A lot of expectant mothers find that their desire for sex fluctuates during certain stages in the pregnancy. You might find sex becomes uncomfortable as your bodies get bigger. This is completely normal.
When you get a little farther along in your pregnancy you will find some sexual positions not as comfortable. Here are a few I recommend you do try.
1. Spoon: The spoon position can be very intimate. In this case you should lie on your side curled in a C, with your partner facing your back and curled around you. He then enters your vagina from behind while both of you are lying on your sides. This position also allows you or your partner to stimulate your clitoris at the same time of penetration.
2. Side by side: Another good choice for late pregnancy, this position will control thrust and keep weight off your belly. You and your husband lie side by side, facing each other. He slips his leg over yours (your leg can be either straight and to the side or bent at the knee) and enters you from an angle. In a variation of this, you lie on your back and he on his side. Put your leg that's closest to him over his legs. He can enter you from the back and side, and still have his face next to yours.
3. Woman on top: This can be a satisfying position during late pregnancy, allowing you to control pacing and be more comfortable. Make sure, however, that he doesn't enter you too deeply. He will always try!
4. Edge of the bed: Try lying down face-up on the edge of the bed, with your legs spread and the soles of your feet on the floor. Your partner can stand or bend over you. This position, however, does allow him to thrust more deeply, so you'll have to tell him how gentle and slow you want him to be.
5. Don't put the sex toys away: Keep them thoroughly cleaned and well lubricated as usual. They can add a lot of pleasure for you as you masturbate and be very erotic for your man to watch. Use them during your foreplay or go at it alone for variety. Just be sure to top adjust the angle and depth to avoid bruising the cervix if using one that penetrates rather than just massages.
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